[ad_1] "If you want something with great vigor, then all the work is trying to introduce you to him/her" This dialogue of Shah Rukh Khan's film 'Om Shanti Om' is the reality of Farhana Farooq's life. After marriage, when the gardener of the house started to waver, Farhana decided to earn money instead of asking for money from his/her mother. Selling jewelry and studied and came out to groomed the future of his/her family, their children. How the film Journalist became a film Journalist, who grew up in Lower Middle Class Family, let's know their story…My childhood spent in the shadow of fearMy childhood was not normal like ordinary children. Papa was a victim of sevier depression, so the responsibility of three of us siblings fell on the mother's shoulders alone. The mother was a teacher, so she knew the importance of studies very well. We could become something by reading and writing, so we were taught in the convent school. I was very good in studies, but the atmosphere of the house made me introverted.Papa's behavior always changed due to depression. When he/she had an angry attack, the whole atmosphere of the house would have deteriorated. Our financial condition was also not good. Seeing all this, I would be badly scared. I used to study to divert attention from the atmosphere of the house. The advantage of this was that after school I got admission in St. Xavier's College. I got a very good atmosphere in college, due to which my fear started to decrease. My introverted behavior also started changing. Now I was starting to change. But I was married before I could become anything.Life changed after marriageThe mother did not want both of us sisters to live in the shadow of poverty even after marriage. he/she got us married as soon as he/she got a good relationship. I was married in 20 years. Because of this I could not become anything.My life changed due to marriage in a rich family. Poverty was left behind. On the day, new clothes, buying jewelry became one of the habits. For me all this was like a dream. I was very happy to find such a happy in -laws. Now there was no complaint with life. In 24 years, I had become the mother of two children.Financial crisis made self -sufficientEverything was going well that gradually our binding fabric business started suffering. It also affected our joint family. The family started to disintegrate. The husband suffered so much damage in the business that it became difficult to run the expenses of the house. The expenses of the education of both the children were also starting to overthrow. My mother helped a lot during this discomfort. Mother used to give me some money from her pension every month to run home. But I did not like to take money from my mother. The mother raised us by taking so much trouble. After marriage, taking money from them would hurt me a lot. Then I decided that now I will be self -sufficient and will earn money myself.Career starts at the age of 40I wanted to do the work, but did not know what I had to do. One day I read about the course of journalism. But I did not have the money for the course of journalism course. I sold my jewelry and took admission. The family members did not like me to do this. But I had no other option. I loved writing. Papa used to write poems, perhaps I got the skill of writing from him/her only. This was the time when I and my children were studying together.In the first job, I got a chance to write on Bollywood. This was my favorite subject. Was fond of watching the film since childhood, so he/she wrote heartily on this subject. My work started appearing. There was no need to look back again. I worked for many big film magazines in the country. My writing continues even after retirement. Career changed the economic condition of my house and gave me a new identity.Career supported after husband's departureIf I did not decide to work at the right time, then the future of my children would have remained in the balance. As soon as my career started, the husband left us. The responsibility of both the children came to me. In Islam, a widow woman does not leave the house for four and a half months. But after the husband left, I started working from the 10th day. I needed money. For my children, I decided to go to office instead of staying at home. Apart from this, I had no other option.I believe that women should be financially self -sufficient. This self -sufficiency becomes their strength in bad times. If a woman earns, the family's behavior towards her changes. Career supported me in my difficult times. I had work, so there was no hindrance in the education and household expenses. [ad_2]
