Saturday, March 15th, 2025

Why does sister-in-law’s behavior change as soon as sister-in-law arrives? If mother-in-law understands the reason, there will be no discord in the house.


There is a saying that where there are four utensils there will be sound. Meaning, because there are more people in the family, fights are inevitable. But morning and evening, every small talk and sometimes unnecessary fights work to create distance in relationships. When one person is blamed for this then the matter becomes even worse.

Many times it is not even the fault of the person for whom he/she is held responsible. For example, after the arrival of the sister-in-law, the change in the behavior of the sister-in-law starts irritating everyone. But many times the reason for this is not the jewelery but the mother-in-law. If the mother-in-law understands the reason for this changing behaviour, then any conflict in the house can be avoided.

Different treatment from sister-in-law and sister-in-law

In some houses, when an elder daughter-in-law arrives, many rules and regulations are made for her. Many restrictions are also imposed from wearing clothes to going out. But when the younger son gets married, there are not so many restrictions for the sister-in-law. In such a situation, hatred for the sister-in-law increases in the mind of the sister-in-law. Whereas in the family, it is the responsibility of the mother-in-law to teach equal rules and regulations to both the daughters-in-law.

speak on someone’s side in a dispute

speak on someone's side in a dispute

Just as the younger son of the house is the most beloved for the mother, similarly in some houses the younger daughter-in-law is also the favorite of the mother-in-law. In such a situation, when there is a fight between sister-in-law and sister-in-law, many times the mother-in-law takes the side of the younger daughter-in-law more than the elder daughter-in-law. She supports her sister-in-law without knowing the whole story. In such a situation, the reason for the fight to end increases. Therefore, mother-in-law should decide right and wrong only after knowing the reason for the fight.

speaking ill of sister-in-law to sister-in-law

speaking ill of sister-in-law to sister-in-law

It is very common to have fights between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but if there are two daughters-in-law in the house and the mother-in-law is more inclined towards one of them, then fights also start happening more often. During this time, when the mother-in-law speaks ill of the elder daughter-in-law, the sister-in-law begins to feel that the sister-in-law is the root of all the trouble. Therefore, due to change in behavior, fights start happening between sister-in-law and sister-in-law also.

taunt without any reason

taunt without any reason

Indian mother-in-law has a very bad habit of taunting even without talking. When the same things are compared between sister-in-law and sister-in-law, it has a very negative impact on the relationship. Even sister-in-law and sister-in-law start having bad feelings for each other. In such a situation, the mother-in-law should give up this bad habit.

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