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Tuesday, July 23rd, 2024

Vikas Divyakirti reprimanded the parents, said- ‘It is the parents who need to grow up, not the children’


There is no one way to raise children and it is not necessary that the same method works for every child. Parents have to adopt different styles to raise their children, only then the child can be raised properly. Regarding raising children, you must have seen that often parents tell them that they should do this or it will be right for them to do this or what they should not do.

Vikas Divyakirti, founder of Drishti IAS Coaching Center, has expressed his/her views on parents giving orders to their children or telling them what to do and what not to do. If you are also a parent, then perhaps you will also agree with him/her. So let’s know what Vikas has said about raising children.

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This is the wrong way to raise children

Vikas Divyakirti said that telling children that they have to do this, they should not do that or what they should do is the most absurd way to raise them. The child feels that all such things are an attack on his/her freedom. he/she feels that no one cares about his/her choice or his/her wishes do not matter and you take all his/her decisions or he/she is not capable of taking decisions himself.

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The child lives in fear

The child lives in fear

he/she said that whatever the parents tell their child to do, the child does it out of fear. This does not mean that whatever you say is the child’s will, rather he/she may agree to what you say because of your fear. In this, the child has no will or desire of his/her own.

preaching to children

preaching to children

he/she says that the most baseless way is to preach to the child. Children learn not by what you say but by watching you. What you are doing, how you behave with others, how you talk, whether you are angry or not or how you handle your relationships and things, children observe all this and then learn the same.

be a good role model

be a good role model

children’s health According to him/her, your child learns not from what you say but from watching you. You should always keep in mind that your child is watching you and observing you. If you are of an angry nature, then your child will also learn the same by watching you. Therefore, you need to become a responsible role model.

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love endlessly

love endlessly

As a parent, it is your responsibility to show your children the right path and guide them, but you have to guide them in the right way. You should not blame the child, criticize him/her or point out his/her mistakes. he/she should feel that you love him/her very much and will always support him/her.

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