These couples told the mantra to make marriage successful, happy and beautiful, equal participation is important in marriage.

‘In case of disagreement, both express their views’

The actress, who came into limelight with the famous small screen serial Kundali Bhagya, her character Shraddha Arya’s husband Rahul Nagal is working in the Indian Navy. Shraddha says, ‘I feel that when a partner is in a demanding profession like mine, it is important to balance personal and professional life. In such a situation, your mutual understanding with your partner matters a lot. We both recognize each other’s commitments, so we are both flexible and supportive in the relationship. For example, once during an important award ceremony which I had to attend, there was an important event at home which I did not want to miss, but it was also necessary for me to go to that award show. But Rahul not only managed the house events by organizing them properly but also took special care of everyone. Such support from husband is very invaluable. I think I am quite lucky in this matter. Whenever there is a disagreement between us on any matter, we both present our respective sides, but I understand that small matters should not be kept in our hearts for a long time. Communication is very important in relationships. If something bothers you, talk about it. Our relationship has always been open and respectful. We give each other space to grow and pursue our goals, but we make sure to stay connected and rooted in love and trust. This is what keeps us strong.

Monalisa and Vikrant Singh

‘Become each other’s support in times of trouble’

Monalisa, a well-known actress of small screen and Bhojpuri films, says about her actor husband Vikrant Seeng, ‘The most important thing for a girl is love, respect and security, which Vikrant gave me from the very first day. We met on the sets of Dulha Albela in 2009 and our chemistry was so strong that we shifted to the same flat within three months. We were in a live in relationship for almost 9 years, but one thing about Vikrant that impressed me a lot was that during our initial dating, he/she took me to his/her hometown, and someone does this only when he/she is serious about the relationship. Be serious. We were always confident about marriage, just wanted to establish our careers. Many questions were raised about our marriage in Bigg Boss house, but we are confident about each other. People even said that this marriage would not work. ,If today it has been 7 years since our marriage. Both have equal participation in our marriage. Vikrant is very protective of me. he/she takes great care of me. We do not let ego come into our fights and become each other’s support in times of trouble. In the last few years, there came a time when my mother was seriously ill and we were also facing financial challenges, but we both remained like a steadfast rock for each other.

Rohitashva and Rekha

‘Rekha supported me in difficult situations’

Rohitashv Gaur, who became everyone’s favorite with the role of Tiwari ji in the popular TV serial Bhabi Ji Ghar Par Hain, says about his/her wife Rekha, ‘Husband and wife are like two wheels of a car. These wheels of our car do their respective jobs and maintain balance. When the children were small, my mother-in-law would often come home and take care of the children. I didn’t have much work at that time, so I often stayed at home and helped take care of the children. Together we managed everything well, thanks to the support of my mother-in-law. Now, since my wife has taken voluntary retirement, she takes care of the house and sometimes our mother-in-law also comes. Since I am busy shooting now, I am not able to spend that much time at home. My wife has grown up in Mumbai, so she knows how to handle many tasks. For example, when we rent out one of our homes, she handles the contract signing. She also handles our banking and property related matters, even in difficult situations. She is not an ordinary housewife – having worked as a scientist in a medical research institute, she manages and understands things very well.

Rajesh Kumar and Madhavi

‘The one who commits a mistake asks for forgiveness’

Well-known small and big screen actor Rochej aka Rajesh Kumar is in the news these days with his/her new film Binny and Family. Talking about his/her relationship with his/her wife Madhavi, he/she says, ‘To maintain balance in your relationship, it is very important to maintain mental balance and you should also avoid bringing work home. The way you want to live should be reflected in your work too. I am often busy shooting, so my partner has taken care of everything – be it taking the kids to school or taking them to their hostel. My wife, Madhavi, handles everything so well that I can concentrate on my work freely and without stress. She has been incredibly supportive. When we argue, we usually remain silent and discuss rather than discuss the fight. We like to start afresh and this solves the problem. Yes, we identify who made the mistake and whoever understands first, apologizes. My relationship mantra is not to interfere too much in each other’s lives and not judge each other’s work. We have been married for 20 years and we understand each other’s patterns. We control our reactions, avoid raising our voices and focus on understanding each other rather than arguing.