Monday, December 23rd, 2024

The new bride gives food by sliding the plate with her foot, instead of getting angry the husband eats with love, know the reason


In India, food is given with great respect, if someone gets the opportunity to feed them, they are fed with love. Elders believe that serving food brings virtue, but you have to feed with love and respect. Various types of dishes are prepared to offer food to God. But just think, if someone slides the plate with your foot, would you like to eat it, probably not.

But this happens not anywhere else but in India only, which has been given the name of tradition. Where the newlywed bride gives the plate to her husband by sliding it with her foot. The most interesting thing is that instead of getting angry, the husband eats it with love. After knowing this you will definitely feel strange. In such a situation, we are telling you about this tradition and its reason, so that it will be easier for you to believe. (Photo courtesy: canva AI, all photos are indicative)

Tharu tribe has a tradition

In India, every state has its own traditions and customs regarding marriages and festivals. The rituals to perform these are also different. Which surprises many times. In such a situation, let us tell you that the Tharu tribe has a tradition of giving food to the husband by moving the plate with his/her foot. Who live in the Indian states of Uttarakhand, Uttar Pradesh and Bihar, their population is also in Nepal.

There is a ritual for the new bride

There is a ritual for the new bride

The tradition of getting the new bride to make the first kitchen is everywhere but in the Tharu tribe it is performed in a different way. Where after marriage, when the newlywed bride cooks something in the kitchen for the first time, she gives it to her husband by slipping it with her foot. Generally people may get angry on doing this, but in Tharu tribe the husband happily eats the food after taking the khaali and applying it on his/her head. According to media reports, this ritual is called ‘Apna-Paraya’.

Reason for slipping with foot

Reason for slipping with foot

In fact, it is said that these women belong to the dynasty, who had to marry soldiers and servants. The Department of Anthropology of Sam Higginbotham Institute of Technology and Sciences had tried to find out the reason by staying with this tribe. In which it was revealed that after the battle of Haldighati, a branch of the Tharu tribe had migrated.
Widowed queens and their daughters then married soldiers and servants. he/she got the support of his/her partner to live his/her life, but his/her ego kept getting hurt, which became a tradition to satisfy by banging the plate. That’s why women give their husbands food by kicking it after serving it.

women head of family

women head of family

Apart from the ritual of hitting the plate, another interesting thing is that in the Rana, Kathoulia and Dagaura clans of this tribe, women are the heads of the family. Most of the rituals, including royal ones, are performed by women only. Tharu tribe is known for its strange rituals.

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