R. Madhavan told how he/she saved his/her marriage, said – Wife had become insecure, girls were crazy about me

Recently, famous musician AR Rahman announced divorce from wife Saira Banu after 29 years. This shocked everyone. AR Rahman’s lawyer Vandana Shah had talked about their separation in an interview. Not only this, he/she recently met actor R. Also spoke to Madhavan and asked what married couples should do when the situation of divorce arises. Then R. Madhavan told how he/she saved his/her marriage with wife Sarita, and what he/she did.R. Madhavan told in a conversation with Vandana Shah on the YouTube channel named For A Change that when he/she started his/her career, his/her wife Sarita had become insecure. But some financially related decisions brought stability in their relationship. Today it has been 25 years since their marriage.

‘Insecurity is enough to break a marriage or make it waver’

R. Madhavan said, ‘I was an actor, and was starting my career. I was called chocolate boy and girls were crazy about me. Obviously, this will create a feeling of insecurity in the woman. And this insecurity is enough to break or shake any marriage.

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Parents’ advice helped

Madhavan further said, ‘I used to ask my parents what they did, and they used to say that we have decided to spend our lives together so why assume that things are going to go wrong? We are going to say that things are going to be right. They always had a joint account for everything. Then I felt that yes, there is truth in it.

Joint account with wife, joint property

R. Madhavan then said, ‘If Sarita will feel insecure after seeing the bank account, then it is better that we check it together that it is a joint account. It belongs to both of us. So by doing this I will assume that this marriage will work. I believe in you and so do you.’

The method worked, the marriage was successful

R. According to Madhavan, this method worked in his/her and Sarita’s relationship. he/she said, ‘I never had any doubt about how much I am earning. She handles all the expenses and money. Even all the cars and properties we have bought till now are in both of our names.