My story: My husband does not earn, sits at home and keeps fighting with me, what should I do?

find reasons not to work

First of all you have to see what is the reason for your husband not working. Does he/she have any problem, mental illness or maybe even depression. You take them to a counselor and see what can be done. They may get better with treatment. The desire to work and earn money for the family may also arise.

Instead of being dependent, think of earning your own money

You have to take out time to study so that you and your daughter can have a future. Don’t depend on them, if possible, find a job along with your preparation. This will bring money into the house and your fights will also reduce. Don’t sit at home, don’t expect them to study or work. You are having a bad time, you have to come out of it, don’t expect anything from anyone.

take right decision at right time

After some time, if you get a job as a teacher, then sit with your family members and explain to your husband that it is important for him/her to do his/her work too. If things work out then it will be good, your daughter will get the love of both mother and father. If they don’t understand then you will have to think about whether you want to spend your life with this person or not. Whatever decision you take, keep your happiness in mind.

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