Question : My husband follows his/her parents’ instructions and has been beating me ever since we got married. It’s been a year since we got married and I don’t know what to do. My in-laws take their side and create quarrels and beatings in the house without any fault. This is the condition in just one year. What should I do?

Domestic violence is seen in all types of families these days, whether they are educated or uneducated. Despite knowing that beating is a crime, people make such a big mistake. Not only this, if the son is on the wrong path, instead of explaining to him/her, they support him/her. But these things should not be taken lightly at all.

Along with avoiding incidents like violence, one should fight for one’s rights, otherwise the consequences can be very bad. This is what is said Vishal Bhardwaj, Founder and Relationship Coach, Predictions for Success Along with answering the user’s question, she has given some important advice. Which can prove helpful for every woman facing this kind of problem. (All pictures are symbolic, we keep the identity of the users in the story shared by them secret)

First understand the reason

First of all you have to know the reason behind the beating, why is he/she doing this. It is possible that you have committed a crime in the past which he/she is unable to get out of his/her mind. Due to which his/her behavior has become like this. In such a situation, you have to analyze what is the reason behind the beating.

Fight for self esteem

The most important thing is that you maintain your self-esteem and self-reliance. It is important that you do not tolerate any kind of oppression and be aware of your rights. Being financially independent and self-reliant can also increase your self-esteem. And you can help yourself deal with such situations.

Seek help from a relationship counselor

If you are not able to try anything, then you can take the help of a relationship counselor. After counseling both of you, he/she will be able to give you the right advice and help you improve your relationship. In such a situation, the counselor can save your wasted life.

resort to law

In India, women have been given legal rights to protect them from domestic violence. You can file a complaint against your husband and in-laws. Under this, you can get protection, right to residence, compensation and other relief. Apart from this, you can call women helpline numbers such as 1091 and 181.

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My story: In one year of marriage, my husband showed me his/her true colors, instead of saving me, my in-laws keep getting me beaten up

First understand the reason

Fight for self esteem

Seek help from a relationship counselor

resort to law

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