My story: I invited my in-laws for dinner, but they did not eat the food I cooked.

Expert’s answer

Dr. Rachna Khanna Singh, HOD of Psychology at Artemis Hospital, Gurugram, says that I understand from all your words that you are feeling very bad. But I would also say that you should talk openly with your in-laws.

Not only this, if you want, you can also talk to your husband about this and understand from him/her why his/her mother prepared food before coming to your house. I am asking you to do this because it may reduce the tension in your relationship.

talk to your in-laws

I can understand very well how you feel due to this attitude of your mother-in-law. In such a situation, I would say that you should first consider talking to your mother-in-law. Tell them how bad you felt when they came to your house after having dinner. Ask about their intentions behind doing this.

Not only this, if you are not comfortable talking to them directly, then invite them again this Diwali. Doing this will not only allow you to spend time together as a family but will also help you both understand each other.

when the reason is known

If you find out why your mother-in-law cooked, try to resolve the issue peacefully and respectfully. However, do not hold back at all from expressing your views during this period. Not only this, both of you can work towards a solution that will prevent such a situation from recurring in the future.

If you also have a story related to relationships, which you want to share with everyone, then you can send it to nbtlifestyle@timesinternet.in. Your name will be kept secret.

Content courtesy TOI, click here to read in English.