Expert’s answer
Dr Kedar Tilve, Psychiatrist at Fortis Hospital, says that it is very natural to feel hopeless and sad at this stage of age. Especially when all your friends are going to tie the knot like marriage.
However, in such a situation, I would say that first of all you have to know that due to which reasons you are not able to make a girl your friend. This is because you yourself told that even with the girls with whom you went on a date, you could not get along with them.
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focus on self confidence
I believe blind dates often disappoint. This is because during this time you are looking for a perfect partner. In such a situation, I would advise you that instead of going on a blind date, you should first work on your confidence.
Identify the things that frustrate you when talking to girls. This can include things from your looks to the way you walk and talk. Is there something inside you that makes you feel disappointed?
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focus on self confidence
I believe blind dates often disappoint. This is because during this time you are looking for a perfect partner. In such a situation, I would advise you that instead of going on a blind date, you should first work on your confidence. Identify the things that frustrate you when talking to girls. This can include things from your looks to the way you walk and talk. Is there something inside you that makes you feel disappointed?
learn social etiquette
Impressing a girl is not that easy. Apart from things, learning social etiquette is also very important. If you want, you can practice it by standing in front of the mirror. Most importantly remember that you are not only the Bachelor, you are playing another important role in your life. If you want, you can take the help of a professional expert so that he can help you by identifying your condition.
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