Jaya Kishori told the difference between love and attachment, said ‘Dhritarashtra ruined the lives of his/her children due to attachment’

Jaya Kishori gave this example of attachment

Everyone calls their attachment for someone as love, but Jaya Kishori explained by giving a very good example of Dhritarashtra and Duryodhan that ‘what Dhritarashtra did to Duryodhan was attachment. he/she ruined his/her life and the lives of his/her children too, in the name of love.’ Everyone should read and understand this.

Love gives freedom

Explaining the difference between love and attachment, he/she said, ‘There is a complete difference between love and attachment. Love is freedom, attachment is bondage, that you make a set, this will happen, that will happen, this will happen, this world will happen, that world will happen. This is not love because you are doing something thought out. Love is complete freedom and what kind of freedom is that you are looking at everything. You know what is right and then you make your choice, this is long term love.’

That means, after seeing and understanding every good and bad habit of the other person, you choose to stay with them, and this is love.

Told Arjun and Krishna as the symbol of love

Jaya Kishori further said that ‘Today I say that, in which I spoke about Dhritarashtra and Duryodhan… love is of Arjun and Krishna. When it was wrong, I stopped it, when it was right, I supported it.’

‘Dhritarashtra supported Duryodhan in everything, you know what happened to whom in the end. We say that love is blind, what is it, we say in everything that yes, it is love, it is not love, it is attachment and it will drown both of them.’

This also teaches us that agreeing with your partner in everything he/she says and supporting him/her in all his/her good and bad deeds is not love. Love is to encourage your partner when he/she is right and to rebuke him/her when he/she is wrong.

Why is it important to know the difference between love and infatuation

It is often seen that some people name their relationship as love and then try to bind and control their partner. But if you really love someone, then do not keep them in any kind of cage, do not be so crazy about them that even the wrong thing of the other person seems right to you. Rather, along with yourself, inspire your partner to do something in life and fulfill their desires.

This is not only applicable to husband-wife or girlfriend-boyfriend, but also applies to parents and children as well as siblings. This is because love and attachment can happen to anyone.