Jaya Kishori said ‘The parents themselves are ruining the child’s life, they will not leave him/her alone’

Wrong standard is set

Jaya Kishori said that where there are constant fights between parents, wrong standards are set in front of the children. If there is a girl, she thinks that husbands are like this. On the other hand, boys start thinking that wives are treated in this manner. She said that girls start feeling husband’s atrocities as normal because they have seen the same things in their childhood.

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Don’t want to get married

Jaya said that seeing the bitter relationship of parents, children also start thinking that if life is like this after marriage, then we should not get married at all. This creates a negative mindset about marriage in the mind of the child. In such a situation, it is better for the parents to separate rather than spoiling the child’s life.

Kids are rude

research gate A research published in 2013 revealed that children who see their parents fighting are more likely to become rude. Seeing parents fighting constantly harms the child’s mental health and also weakens their bond with the parents. Children also learn the mannerisms of their parents.

becomes angry

The fights between parents have a bad effect on children too and this fact cannot be denied. This spoils the problem solving skills of the child. Seeing his/her parents, he/she also becomes aggressive and angry. he/she tries to solve his/her problems just like his/her parents.

Effect on health

Daily fights between parents can cause anxiety and depression in children. They may feel helpless. Due to stress, the child may lose appetite or start eating less. This can cause headache or stomach ache. The child may also have difficulty sleeping at night. Children may also develop phobias etc.