Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024

Jaya Bachchan and daughter Shweta Bachchan do not agree on the topic of love, it is not easy to accept this new love.


Love is love. There are many forms of it. There are many reasons behind these various forms, one of which is changing times. You must have often heard your grandmother using expressions like ‘Hey in our time’. It is natural for them to use these words because with the changing times, the ways of maintaining or running relationships have also changed, which is shocking to some extent for the older generation.

The same gap also exists between the thinking of Jaya Bachchan, Shweta Bachchan Nanda and Navya Nanda. An example of this was seen when in What the Hell Navya, all three talked about the topic of love and the impact of modern times on it. (Photo courtesy: Yogen Shah)

The foundation of love and relationships has changed

During the conversation on Navya’s show, both Jaya and Shweta expressed their opinion about love and relationships in today’s times. There was a lot of difference in the thoughts of both of them regarding this. Jaya highlighted that today’s youth have relationships but it is not love.

On this Shweta said, ‘I think you people have more options than us. Your choice pool is much larger. In today’s time, people are traveling a lot. The world has become small for them. They are talking even across the ocean from one country to another. Today’s youth are not bound by such limits like us. And apps are playing an important role in all this.

Jaya did not seem to agree much with what her daughter said. he/she expressed that Choice used to exist during his/her and Shweta’s time also. And where does this concept of counting in love come from? This time Shweta said, ‘Mama, in our time our scope was limited to school, same city or even the country.’ Amitabh’s daughter expressed that now times have changed and the definition of everything has also changed. (Photo courtesy: Yogen Shah)

The way of maintaining relationships changes with every generation

The way of maintaining relationships changes with every generation

Even though in Navya’s show, the talk was only about love and the relationships related to it, but the truth is that the way of maintaining every relationship keeps changing with the generation. For example, earlier children did not express their feelings to the elders of the house. he/she always maintained a limit. But in today’s time, children talk openly with their parents and grandparents. This has brought a lot of openness in communication between everyone.

Similarly, earlier relationships were kept only to loved ones, but nowadays it has become quite common to post on social media to express love. (Photo courtesy: Instagram@shwetabachchan)

Jaya and Shweta’s thoughts about love

App dating culture, which is beyond the understanding of the older generation

App dating culture, which is beyond the understanding of the older generation

Shweta Bachchan also talked about apps in her talk. It is a complete fact that in today’s era the use of dating apps has become quite common. Through this, youth are choosing partners according to their interests. In this, some people are getting the option in the same city, while someone’s heart strings are connecting with a person from across the seven seas.
This whole concept is beyond the thinking of people of earlier times. Because earlier dating was usually done only by those with whom one had met face to face before. Then the conversation progressed and the relationship reached the second stage. In such a situation, it is difficult for them to understand that how can you directly date someone whom you have never met and do not know anything about?

It’s a relationship, not love

It's a relationship, not love

These words said by Jaya Bachchan are also not far from the truth. This is because earlier the meaning of relationship was that two people love each other. But today’s youth, even after getting into a relationship with each other, keep figuring out whether they are in love or not. Some people get into relationships just to keep up with the trends or to avoid being left alone in a peer group. For them, love is no longer a matter of heart but has become a practical decision.
The biggest disadvantage of this new concept is that most of the youth have started measuring the feeling of love. They are also moving on from one person to another very quickly. They consider it normal to be attracted to someone else despite being in a relationship. If they feel better about the other person, then they break the old relationship and start a new relationship. All this has become so common that now even breakups and divorces are not surprising.

No choice but to adopt

No choice but to adopt

Be it love or the way to maintain relationships, the older generation can only guide the new generation. They will have to accept this new age love. It would be better if they do not expect the youth to completely change their thinking.

This is also important because in today’s era, if they follow old concepts, it will be difficult for them to survive. They will get heart breaks at every step. And why would anyone want to go through this?

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