It is very important for parents to be close to their children because this helps them know what is going on in their child’s life and help them whenever they need it. As children grow up, they tend to distance themselves from their parents. However, parents should stay close to their child and build a supportive relationship with him/her or her.
Staying close and connected to your child helps the child feel safe and also provides the right guidance during difficult times. Here we are telling you about some ways with the help of which you can stay close to your child.
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Communicate
Conversation is very important for any relationship. You should talk to your child and develop mutual understanding in your relationship. You should listen to the child and show him/her that you are interested in what he/she has to say. The child should not feel uncomfortable while talking. Create an environment for him/her where the child can express his/her views openly. Apart from this, you should also take care of the child’s privacy and freedom.
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must give freedom
In an article published in the Times of India, mental health and relationship expert Ashmin Munjal says that as children grow up, they need the freedom to make their own decisions. Parents should trust their children’s choices and support them. However, giving freedom does not mean that you should not set clear boundaries.
You should also involve yourself
Create an environment where you are involved in the daily routine of the child. Participate in the activities that interest the child and be available for him/her. Spending quality time with the child increases his/her confidence and enthusiasm.
Be emotionally present
Be emotionally present for your children when they need you. Celebrate your child’s achievements. Celebrate even his/her or her smallest achievements. Make your child feel that you are always there for him/her or her. You will be there for him/her or her in his/her or her happiness and sorrows.
Adopt the lifestyle of the child
You should try to adopt the lifestyle of the child. With changing times, you should also be a little open and flexible. You should have a positive effect on the child. Your actions and behavior affect the child’s emotions. Sit with the child and share some stories with him/her that inspire and encourage him/her.
