‘If you talk to children like this, they will definitely become your enemy’

If you have a child then adopt these parenting methods

Effect of negative words

If you say in front of the child or to him/her – You don’t know anything, you won’t understand or everything has gone wrong because of you, then it works like a slow poison for the child. What you are saying is going inside the child and this will help in building the personality of the child.

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there will be no loss today

Vikram said that today you will not see the harm your words are causing to the child, but gradually his/her confidence will end, the loving bond he/she has with you will get spoiled and his/her development will not be the same. , as it should be. If you are doing this again and again then it is guaranteed that your child is being harmed by it.

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What is the plan?

Vikram Sharma has said that what you have to do to avoid such situations is that whenever you talk, use positive words. Even if you have to explain something by going against the other person, use only positive words. Know what kind of positive words you can use.

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you can do this

What is being told here is not related to Vikram Sharma. Many times parents are seen telling their children that they will not be able to do this. These are negative words. Instead, tell the child, ‘You can do this’. By saying this, the child’s self-confidence will increase and he/she will consider himself capable of doing everything.

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you are not the reason

Every family faces some problem or the other. Even sometimes there is a fight between parents regarding children. In anger, do not tell the child that the fight is happening because of him/her. You should explain to him/her that he/she is not the reason for the fight but both of you have different views.

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