If the child starts throwing things or kicking, then instead of laughing, you need to go to a therapist

Expert opinion

In an article published in the Times of India, Archana Singal, founder and family therapist at Mindwell Counsel, Delhi, says that we express intense emotions in the form of anger, such as shouting or reporting a crime. These expressions occur when toddlers yell to express their dissatisfaction when they are uncomfortable, overwhelmed or unable to connect with their surroundings. But this tantrum can get louder when the child starts throwing things.

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Sometimes they show tantrum

It is completely normal for toddlers to get angry and throw temper tantrums. Often children are not able to express their needs or desires properly and this is why they get angry in response. A change in the course of an activity or when faced with new or challenging situations can also cause a child to get angry.

When should you worry

If there is no improvement in the child and his/her tantrums are increasing, then you need to pay attention here. If the child behaves aggressively with others daily such as biting, pushing or punching, then you should not ignore it.

When the family starts getting affected

On the other hand, when the child’s tantrum starts affecting the family negatively, then you should seek professional help. In this, you should try to understand those things that trigger the child and then try to ignore those triggers as much as possible. You can help the child to control his/her emotions and express his/her views in a better way.

Patience and understanding is needed

Tantrums are a normal part of toddler development and parents need to be patient and understanding. With its help, parents can easily overcome the challenges.

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