Gaur Gopal Das fell at his/her feet and apologized, how could his/her father hug him/her after death?

What happened to Gaur Gopal Das?

Gaur Gopal Das had told in an interview that his/her father was a chain smoker due to which his/her health was deteriorating a lot. Then, to get rid of the smoking habit, he/she adopted the strategy of getting his/her father to stop it. his/her father repeatedly said this, but Gaur Gopal Das used to turn his/her face away.

Not talking to his/her father in this way had hurt him/her a lot. Gopal Das used to think in his/her ego that he/she was right but in this matter of right and wrong, it is also important to take care of the feelings of loved ones.

When father’s patience broke

Gaur Gopal Das told that I did not talk to my father for 2 years. When father’s patience broke, he/she fell at my feet and started crying with me. Then after mother understood, I started talking. But could not apologize for his/her wrong behavior. Every time I thought of apologizing, but could not. And, father passed away in the year 2009. Here grief of losing father It increased even more.

As time passed, he/she became unforgiving

When Gaur Gopal Das reached his/her home after his/her father’s departure, he/she placed his/her head at the feet of the dead body and apologized. Said- ‘Papa, sorry, I should never have behaved like this with you.’ Although till then there was no one to forgive in this world. Who would pick him/her up, hug him/her and understand his/her mistake. Therefore, it is very important to apologize on time; it is most wise to apologize as soon as you realize your mistake.

Gaur Gopal Das still regrets

You may be right, but don’t hurt your ego

You are doing the right thing, it is good to have this belief in yourself but it should not be an ego thing. In fact, a person stops thinking about what effect the decisions taken in ego are having on his/her loved ones. One is not able to realize how much someone is suffering because of this decision. Therefore, even if it is right, the decision should be such that it does not turn into a mistake with the passage of time.