We all understand very well that raising children is not easy for parents, rather parents face many challenges and obstacles during this. Sometimes they have to deal with the tantrums of children, and sometimes they also have the responsibility of teaching good habits to children.

Vikas Divyakirti, founder of Drishti Coaching Centre, has said that parents should not have high expectations from their children but should be comfortable with them. he/she said that you should not put too much burden on your children. Your child will do something good in his/her life.

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‘Parents should not make their children more capable’

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Highly capable children are not good

Vikas Divyakirti said that children who are more capable or competent do not help their parents in their old age or stay away from them. These children only send money orders to their parents. Therefore, he/she believes that parents should not put pressure on their children to become more capable.
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Happiness is important, not ability

he/she says that the less capable children will stay with their parents for life so that their family can stay together and the parents will also be happy. In this way you can be happy even with your less capable child. Do not impose your excessive wishes on your child. If your child is happy, you will also be happy.
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There is happiness in every situation

Vikas says that you will be happy in every situation if you stay with your child. Do not burden him/her with doing more than his/her capability. If he/she stays with you even when he/she is less capable, you will be happier and both of you will be able to support each other in difficult times. Do not change your parenting style by looking at other parents.

It affects the mental health of children

In a TEDx talk, educator Osteza Landbergini said that neuroscientists have found that prolonged stress can change the structure and functioning of the brain. When parents have high expectations from their child, the child starts living under stress. Children who live under a lot of stress may later develop disorders like anxiety, depression and mood swings.

Mental health will deteriorate

This means that children get stressed while fulfilling the high expectations of their parents and due to this they become victims of some mental illness by the time they become adults. In such a situation, it is not right for parents to have high expectations from their children. As a parent, you should also take care of this.

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Former IAS Vikas Divyakirti said ‘Parents should not make their children more capable’