Monday, March 17th, 2025

Every son should tell these 5 things to his/her father before his/her death


The role of a father in life is something that perhaps no one has been able to define or put into words. Especially in a country like India, where boys get a different kind of upbringing, the role of a father in the family is quite complex. At some places, there is an atmosphere of strictness, while at other places, there is a feeling of friendship.

Whatever the situation, a father always treats his/her son more strictly than his/her daughter. There are many reasons behind this, which a son can understand only when he/she reaches that age or becomes a father himself. This is the time when it becomes clear to the sons why their father is the way he/she is.

he/she also starts to clearly see the feelings that his/her father always keeps hidden in his/her eyes and heart. And with these suppressed feelings, he/she leaves this world. Then the son is left with the wish that he/she had told his/her father those things that would have made him/her realize how important he/she is to him/her and how successful he/she has been as a father.

Before this regret reaches you, why not tell these 5 things to your father openly.

You are my teacher and friend

You were strict with me, but later I understood how necessary this strictness was to stop me from going on the wrong path and to make me a good person. You were preparing a path for me on which it would be easy for me to walk. Even if you were angry, no one else could understand what was in my mind without my saying it. You are the Guru of my life and also such a friend who wants only my good.

don’t blame yourself

don't blame yourself

I know you feel guilty seeing me grow up and still maintaining some distance from you. But you should not feel like that at all. What is there to feel guilty about?

Since childhood, we have had enough food to eat, we have had clothes to wear, we have been educated and all our needs have been fulfilled. You may not have been able to express your feelings in words, but now we clearly understand that it was your love that made you do all this for us, sacrificing your own desires.

Be proud of the upbringing you gave us

Be proud of the upbringing you gave us

The way we are moving ahead today managing our professional and personal life and at the same time have been able to get a respectable place in the society, you should feel proud of your upbringing.

No matter what your colleagues or relatives say or try to blame you for any of our shortcomings, do not let it affect you. Because you have truly given us your best.

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