Playing love is not easy
The beauty of love increases further when we accept the partner with his/her good heart. Our arranged marriage took place. When we got married, I was 18 years old and Mangal ji is 23 years old. I grew up in Mumbai and Lodha ji in Jodhpur.
After marriage, I went from Mumbai to Jodhpur. Move himself in living there. But living in Mumbai is probably written in my luck. At the same time, father -in -law became a judge from a lawyer. Then Lodha ji was also advocating. According to the rule, the son cannot advocate in the city where the father is a judge. Because of this, Lodha ji had to leave Jodhpur. In this way, we came to Mumbai in search of new work.
Run home in 2 thousand rupees a month
My father and maternal uncle had real estate business. Initially, Lodha ji understood this business with both of them one year, then started his/her business. We did not bring anything from Jodhpur and here we had to start work with zero. A few years of the beginning were very struggled.
Leaving the luxurious living of the parents’ house, we had to spend the days in the single bedroom house. After the 13 -room house of in -laws (Jodhpur), we had to struggle with zero after a loud life of the maiden. I had never worked in the maiden, but after marriage, Sigdi, cooked food in the stove. Learned to cook by reading Tarala Dalal’s books. Many times hands used to burn.
My parents had taught that the in-laws are like the house. I always put his/her learning on my eyes. Runned a house in Mumbai for 2 thousand rupees a month. Traveled in the bus. Bought Scooty after some time.
After the mother’s departure, there was a rum in devotion
When both sons were there, the responsibility increased. Many times I did not understand what would happen next. But I always kept patience. I learned tolerance and patience from my mother. The mother used to say that keep patience in difficult times, everything will be alright with time. If Lodha ji had a new job, he/she could not give much time at home. At that time my mother supported a lot.
I was very close to my mother, but due to cancer, the mother also left us very quickly. The mother’s departure had a very profound effect on me. At the same time, my 28 -year -old brother -in -law also passed away. That time was very difficult for us. In recovering from that grief, the path of devotion supported me, otherwise I would go into depression. Since then devotion has become an unbreakable part of my life. I have unwavering faith in God. They encourage to get out of every difficult time.
That time was hard
Like every girl, I also dreamed that a prince like a boy would come to sit on a white mare and take me with him/her. Like Hindi films, we will go on long drive, watch the film together, will have dinner. But real life is very different from dreams and films. After marriage, two different families have to be connected, household is settled, it requires a lot of hard work, time and patience.
My mother-in-law taught that in the evening when the husband came tired home, always come in front of him/her. When Lodha ji saw me in the evening, he/she would often sing in a romantic mood- that magic is in your face … I used to forget all the fatigue of the day after hearing my praise from his/her mouth. I used to sing for them- one with you give us the love from where …
At that time we did not have much money, yet we used to eat ice cream or drink juice in the evening. If I am fond of watching the film, Lodha used to walk with him/her. We are very fond of music. Everyone is fond of singing, dancing in the house. Whenever we got free time, we would play Antakshari. Children also used to enjoy a lot with us. It was our quality time. When money was less, things were more important.
Hard work brings color
Gradually, business started growing. Then Lodha ji joined politics. his/her busyness continued to grow over time. Realizing the lack of time, now we try to live a good moment in the time we get.
Both sons are married. Life with both the daughters-in-law, grandchildren is going through very comfortable. We are living the best time of life with our two sons-builder and five grandchildren.
Now even if there is some restrictions on eating and drinking with age. But still whenever we get time, we go out in the evening. Now you are unable to enjoy ice cream or juice, but sit together and drink tea. If there is no time to watch the film in the theater, then they sit together at home and watch the film. Say songs. Even today it is quality time. Even today I am well prepared before Lodha ji returns home.
