Thursday, December 12th, 2024

‘Bahu, you have done absolutely right’, that advertisement of Sasur and Bahurani which touched every woman’s heart


In-laws, a word that scares girls as soon as they hear it. Why? Because since childhood they hear more negative things about it than positive things. And if the in-laws’ place is such where everyone lives as a joint family, then the situation seems even more scary.

But what if a girl gets a father-in-law in her husband’s house who not only gives her love but also defends her in every challenging or difficult situation just like a father? If this really happens, then the daughter-in-law never faces a situation in which she has to compromise her self-respect or self-esteem.

This relationship between father-in-law and daughter-in-law was shown so beautifully in an advertisement of a famous company that it touched the hearts of women. And the way the message was given for everyone in it, people can learn a lesson from it even in the present times. Let us tell you about it. (Photo courtesy Video Grab: The Viral Ads)

The child stole the money, but the mother got taunted

In this ad, it is shown how the whole family is sitting at the dining table to eat, but when the mother serves food to the son, he/she angrily pushes the plate away. Seeing the food being disrespected, she picks up the plate. After this, one by one, from the elders of the house to the husband, everyone starts taunting the woman.

Actually, the son had stolen 10 rupees from his/her mother’s purse, for which he/she was severely reprimanded. But the others did not like the strictness shown to the child for such a small amount. So they started saying insulting things to the mother like ‘I took my money, not your father’s, you are from a small family, will you starve the boy for 10 rupees, your parents did not teach you anything’ etc.

When the father in law said ‘daughter in law you have done the right thing’

When father in law said daughter in law you did the right thing

After this, the ad showed how the father-in-law finally intervened after seeing everyone dominating the daughter-in-law. The head of the house said in harsh words, ‘The child did not take the money from the purse, he/she stole it. he/she has stolen it today, who knows what he/she will do tomorrow. And if I were in his/her mother’s place, I would not have given him/her food for two days.’

In the end, he/she says as if giving a verdict, ‘Bahu, you have done the right thing’. Hearing all this, the rest of the family has no choice but to step back and start eating quietly. (Photo courtesy: Video Grab: The Viral Ads)

This is the condition of daughter-in-law in many houses

This is the condition of daughter-in-law in many houses

Although it was an advertisement, many women could relate to it and hence it became quite popular. The condition of the daughter-in-law shown in it was exactly like that of many Indian households.

She may do something right, but if it is wrong in the eyes of others, then she has to bow her head and silently bear everyone’s rebuke. Especially if the situation is such that her family is financially less strong than her in-laws, then she has no other option.

When you find a supportive father-in-law

When you find a supportive father-in-law

If a girl gets a father-in-law who supports her, gives her love and treats her like a daughter, then it becomes easier for her to live in her in-laws’ house. Not only this, but it also becomes possible for her to find happiness in her new home and live with her self-respect intact. And which girl would not want to have such a life?

Do not question your mother’s strictness

Do not question your mother's strictness

By the way, we learn one more thing in this advertisement. If a mother scolds a child for a mistake or shows strictness, then one should not stop her from doing so. Because if a child is not stopped from doing wrong things in childhood, then these things can take a bigger form as he/she grows older. So if the mother is strict, then try to identify the reason behind it and only then react. (Photo courtesy: Pexels)

If you don’t respect your child, he/she will disrespect you when he/she grows up

If you don't respect your child, he/she will disrespect you when he/she grows up

If a daughter-in-law, wife or mother is not respected in a house and she has to face humiliation repeatedly in front of everyone, then even a child may lose respect for her.

Not only will they stop obeying their mother, but it is also possible that when they grow up, they will start disrespecting her like others. This is why how the child is reacting to any matter matters a lot. (Photo courtesy: Pexels)

When the father-in-law supported the daughter-in-law

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