Swara’s husband said that only sexual orientation was the same between us, know its meaning.

What did Fahadh say?

Fahadh had told in ‘Couple of Things’ that when both of them met for the first time in the year 2019, they had understood that there was nothing in common between them. he/she said that both of them have ‘left behind all the differences of caste, religion, city-village and class’ to come together and take the relationship forward. For this, both of them worked a lot on their relationship.

During this, Fahadh had also told about the similarity that existed between the two. he/she had said that only ‘sexual orientation’ was similar between him/her and Swara. Now what is this word? What does it mean? And why is it important to understand this before two people get closer? Let us know.

What does sexual orientation mean?

Sexual orientation means how a person is emotionally, romantically and physically attracted to others based on their identity. This attraction is different from gender identity.

For example, in Swara Bhaskar’s case, Fahadh had said that the sexual orientation between them is the same. We are both straight’. That means both are attracted to the opposite gender.

Why is it important to understand this before falling in love?

If you feel attracted to someone and want to have a relationship with them, then it is important to understand their sexual orientation first and foremost. Why so, let us understand it with an example.

Let’s say you like a guy and you approach him/her to have a drink together. he/she also agrees and with time the bond between you becomes stronger. But later you come to know that the boy is homosexual and has romantic interest only in people of the same gender.

This means that the relationship that seemed serious to you was just a friendship for the other person. Now your heart breaks, but you can’t do anything.

If you had already known what the boy’s sexual orientation was, you would not have emotionally invested yourself in that way and would have been saved from such a big heartbreak.

Complications may arise

Sexual orientation can also bring many types of relationship complications. For example, your partner may not be comfortable with the fact that you are bisexual or pansexual.

Even if they come to know about this after marriage, there is no guarantee that they will accept it. If they had known these things before going into commitment, then perhaps both of them would have been able to take a better decision regarding their relationship.

So next time, before getting close to someone, know about his/her sexual orientation. This will save you from heart break.